on why i do not celebrate lent...

Because the blogging world is full of posts dedicated to the observance of Lent right now, I thought I'd rock the boat a bit and share why I don't observe it. This post might alternately be titled, "if you didn't know I was Reformed, you do now...." ha.

1. It trivializes the work of Christ. Period! Christ suffered the torments of hell on our behalf. He bore the full weight of God's wrath even though He did nothing wrong. That is suffering! Doing without TV is not!

2. It makes a mockery of God's grace. The idea that we have any power to establish a "closer relationship" with God by giving something up "for" Him is nothing short of works-based righteousness. "Knowing that a man is not justified by the works of the law, but by the faith of Jesus Christ, even we have believed in Jesus Christ, that we might be justified by the faith of Christ, and not by the works of the law: for by the works of the law shall no flesh be justified." Gal. 2:16

3. It would make the Pharisees proud. Lent has got to be the definition of "outward displays of piety". I just don't understand why the whole free world needs to know what a person is "giving up" for God...other than to be congratulated for such "sacrifice". Our Heidelberg Catechism question and answer 91 says, "What are good works? Those only which proceed from true faith and are done according to the law of God, unto His glory; and not such as rest on our own opinion or the commandments of men." {Rom. 14:23, 1 Sam. 15:22, 1 Cor. 10:31, Deut. 12:32, Ezek. 20:18, 20, Num. 15:39}

4. It's "temporary." If the point is to truly find something that is a stumbling block {and I don't believe for a second that most people actually do this...you can't tell me chocolate is actually coming between you and God. Please.} and remove it so that it no longer hinders your relationship with God, then why on earth would you only remove it for 40 days?!

5. It is our sinful heart that separates us from God, nothing else. Not chocolate. Not blogging. Not television. Our sinful heart. And that has already been atoned for on Calvary. "Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin. For he that is dead is freed from sin. Now if we be dead with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with Him." Rom. 6:6-8

*steps down off soap box*

right now i'm...

...super excited about the school calendar that I came up with over the last few weeks! It's a sort of modified year-round schedule. We still have 2 big chunks of "summer vacation", but it allows for more one week vacations during the school year! This is one of those weeks! Hooray! :)

...in denial that emma is old enough to go to church summer camp this year. my mother in law and and i are going to be the camp cooks. you didn't really think i was going to let emma go without me, did you? ;)

...full of heart shaped pancakes!

...thinking that "say yes to the dress" is a great metaphor for all that is wrong with this country. a woman just bought a $12,000 dress {A TWELVE THOUSAND DOLLAR DRESS!! what the what!?!} even though her budget was $4,000. but it's ok because it made her "feel special" and the sale's woman told her she "deserved it." i don't even know what to say. actually, i do. but it's not very nice. ;)

...thankful for wednesday lunches on the grass with dear friends.

...seeing the first beautiful blooms on the almond trees outside our window!

...needing to stock up on allergy pills. sigh.

...planning for our garden and more chicks. and maybe a pig? hmmm.

...thankful for a full egg crate in the fridge after a winter with very few eggs. yay for sunshine and a few 70 degree days!

...sorting and tagging bins and bins of clothes for an upcoming consignment sale. it's the first consignment sale i've ever done. coming up with prices for things stresses me out.

...not watching "hoarders" and "fatal attraction" {people who keep large, wild animals like lions and bears as pets and are ultimately maimed or killed by them}. these shows stress me out. seriously. i don't think it's entertaining on any level to watch other people's crazy. i have enough crazy of my own, thankyouverymuch.

...relieved to have leftover gumbo and red beans and rice from yesterday's church potluck for dinner tonight! yum! it's a fact that we have the BEST pot lucks ever! no jello surprise to be found.

...going to clean/gut lauren's room {again!} now. if you don't hear from me soon, send reinforcements. blerg.

...wishing you a happy valentine's day, friends!

A {Partially} Handmade Christmas: Part I

Everyone on our Christmas list this year is receiving something handmade.

Not all of their gift, but at least part of it was made with love by yours truly {or one or both of the girls}.

The following three recipes were made and given to the assorted teachers, pastors, neighbors and male family members {because I'm pretty sure they wouldn't have adequate appreciation for a headband} in our lives.

Homemade Chocolate Cherry Granola

{This is a recipe I make all the time for us and have adapted from several different ones I've found online. That's the beauty of granola; you can use whatever dried fruits or nuts you want/like/have on hand!}

• 2 cups Quick Oats
• 3T & 1t Canola Oil
• 1/4 cup honey
• 1/4 cup brown sugar
• 1t pure vanilla extract
• 1/2 cup almonds
• 1/3 cup dried cherries
• 1/3 cup chocolate chips

Preheat oven to 325 and line a cookie sheet with parchment paper. Toss oats with cinnamon and salt. Stir oil, honey, brown sugar and vanilla together in a bowl. Combine oats and wet mixture. Pour onto the baking sheet and spread out with a spatula. Bake 10 minutes. Lift and flip granola, add nuts and bake another 5 minutes. Let cool and add cherries and chocolate {I usually add the chocolate immediately because I like it to melt a little. Your choice. There is no granola police that I'm aware of.}

Fill mason jars, add a cute tag and viola! Merry Christmas! :)

Homemade Marshmallows

• 3 packets of unflavored gelatin
• 1 cup of cold water
• 1 1/2 cups of granulated sugar
• 1 cup of light corn syrup
• 1 tsp. salt
• the seeds of one vanilla bean, 1 tbsp. of vanilla extract, or 1 tbsp. of vanilla paste
• 1/4 cup powdered sugar
• 1/4 cup cornstarch
• nonstick spray

First, pour the gelatin into a mixing bowl with 1/2 cup of the cold water. Let that hang out while you get the other stuff ready. In a small saucepan, stir together the other half cup of water, the sugar, the corn syrup, and the salt. Put the lid on, turn the heat up to medium-high, and let it bubble away for about four minutes. Then take the lid off, stick a candy thermometer on the side of the pan, and let it cook another 7-8 minutes until the mixture hits 240 degrees.

Now turn on your mixer that has a whisk attachment and slowly pour the sugar mixture into the gelatin and water. Do this on LOW speed. That sugar is hot. Once it's all incorporated, turn the mixer on high, add the vanilla, and beat for a looooong time, like 15 minutes. The mixture is white and fluffy and gooey and beautiful.

Next, mix the powdered sugar and cornstarch in a small bowl and sprinkle some of it into a 13x9 pan lined with foil and lightly sprayed with cooking spray. Got that? Pan, foil, cooking spray, sugar/cornstarch. Now pour the white fluffy goodness into that prepared pan and sprinkle the top with more sugar and cornstarch. Let it sit uncovered for several hours and even overnight. When the marshmallows have set, put a cutting board on top of the pan, and flip out the marshmallows. You might have to peel off the foil a bit, but that's no big deal. Now take a big sharp knife and cut the marshmallows into strips and then into squares. Cut them as big or as little as you'd like. Toss each piece in the rest of the sugar/cornstarch mixture to keep the marshmallows from sticking together.

I also made a peppermint version by pulverizing a handful of Brach's peppermint candies {in the coffee grinder} and adding it to the cornstarch/powdered sugar mixture. I also added one half tablespoon of peppermint extract and a few drops of red food coloring after pouring the sugar mixture into my KitchenAid. They turned out a pretty pink color and are deliciously minty! :)

Don't be intimidated by the number of steps in this recipe. They were super easy to make and turned out perfectly! Plus, my girls were thoroughly impressed! :)

I filled mason jars with a Spiced Chocolate Chai mix {Nestle hot cocoa mix and Big Train Spiced Chai mix both purchased at Smart & Final. Yum! Thanks for sharing, Steph!} and topped them off with several of these marshmallows.

Sea Salt Caramels

• 1 3/4 cup sugar
• 1 can evaporated milk
• 3/4 cup heavy cream
• 3/4 cup light corn syrup
• 2 Tbsp. butter
• 1/4 tsp. vanilla extract
• 1/2 Tbsp. coarse sea salt
• Oil or cooking spray

Directions

Active time: 30 minutes***
Total time: 1 hour, 30 minutes

In a medium, heavy-bottomed saucepan, bring sugar, evaporated milk, and heavy cream to a boil over medium heat. Add corn syrup and continue cooking until mixture reaches 230°.

Add butter and vanilla; continue cooking, stirring constantly, until caramel reaches 240°. Remove from heat, stir in salt, and carefully pour into a lightly oiled 9" x 13" baking dish (parchment paper in the bottom of the pan is helpful).

Let cool at least 1 hour. Invert onto a cutting board covered with waxed or parchment paper and cut into 1-inch pieces with a sharp, lightly oiled knife. Caramels can be wrapped in waxed or parchment paper or cellophane. (To serve candy-store style, wrap individual pieces in parchment paper and secure the ends with a simple twist. This is terribly time consuming, but pretty impressive looking, I must say!) Store airtight at cool room temperature (around 65°) or in the refrigerator; will keep up to 3 weeks.

***Warning: These are dangerously good and I ate an embarrassing amount considering I don't even like caramel. The hint of salt makes them divine! However, the person that wrote this recipe claiming that they take 30 minutes to make is a liar! It took me no less than one.full.hour of standing at the stove {watching, stirring and adjusting the temp to get it to 230! I stopped counting the minutes after that, but it was another good chunk of time before it reached the final temp of 240! Let's just say if you have an infant or busy toddler, you're gonna want to wait another several years before you attempt these! Oy.} Also, it tends to boil & bubble up violently while cooking. I learned this the hard way during my first attempt at making them. FYI, when it overflows all over your stove and then scorches all over the top of your range, it creates an impressive amount of black smoke and will probably require you to open all your windows. And your kids may or may not start screaming that their eyes are burning & threaten to be sick from the smell. Whatever. I didn't hear them complaining when they were devouring them the next day! :)

What are your go to Christmas gift recipes? Do share!